Break Free from ADHD Shame, Perfectionism & Burnout — Build Skills That Support You
Understand the “Why” Behind Your Struggles and Start Building What Actually Works
You’re Smart, Capable, and Driven—So Why Does ADHD Still Feel Like a Battle?
ADHD isn’t a lack of intelligence or ability—it’s an inconsistency in performance. You know what you should be doing, but staying on track feels impossible. The gap between what you can do and what actually gets done leads to shame, chronic frustration, and self-doubt.
Maybe you:
✅ Struggle with perfectionism as a way to control outcomes and avoid mistakes.
✅ Ruminate on past interactions, worrying about how you came across.
✅ Feel emotionally drained from anticipating social situations.
✅ Overanalyze mistakes but brush off successes.
✅ Hyperfocus on certain tasks while completely avoiding others.
✅ Use self-criticism as motivation, only to feel burned out and stuck.
ADHD isn’t just about focus—it impacts how you see yourself, how you set goals, and how you manage emotions. That’s where I come in.
Turn ADHD Frustration into Knowledge, Action & Growth.
How My ADHD Therapy is Different
I don’t do passive, open-ended talk therapy where you just vent and go home. I offer Solution-Focused ADHD Therapy, an action-oriented approach that helps you:
🛠 Understand how your ADHD brain works (beyond the generic advice).
📖 Rewrite self-talk & reduce shame with compassionate self-reflection.
🎯 Develop executive function strategies like time management, planning, and self-monitoring.
⚡ Learn how to harness hyperfocus instead of feeling controlled by it.
💡 Practice cognitive flexibility, so perfectionism doesn’t keep you stuck.
I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor, Special Education Teacher, and ADHD Specialist with over 15 years of experience helping neurodivergent individuals. My approach blends science-backed ADHD strategies with self-compassion and practical tools—so you don’t just survive with ADHD, you better understand your brain, understand solutions that work and understand how to create future solutions for yourself without feeling like something that worked was a blip.
The ADHD Growth Mindset: Small Shifts, Big Changes
ADHD brains are wired for creativity, innovation, and deep thinking—but they also require structure, self-compassion, and intentional practice. Here’s how we shift your mindset:
📌 Executive Function Coaching: Systems That Work for You
- Daily & weekly check-ins to keep you on track.
- Creating 1% better habits instead of all-or-nothing thinking.
- Practical time management strategies that fit your unique brain.
🧠 Self-Compassion & ADHD Shame Resilience
- Identifying & challenging perfectionism (instead of letting it run the show).
- Kristin Neff’s self-compassion exercises to break free from negative self-talk.
- Writing a letter to your future self as an act of encouragement.
🌊 Flow & Hyperfocus: Learning to Work with Your Brain
- Harnessing hyperfocus so it’s a strength, not a struggle.
- Understanding how your brain prioritizes novelty and how to manage distractions.
- Using mindful awareness to shift attention intentionally.
📊 The ADHD Identity Map: Rebuilding Self-Esteem
- Rate yourself on key aspects of your identity (kindness, independence, creativity).
- Understand what’s holding you back from feeling confident in these areas.
- Set small, meaningful goals to build self-trust and momentum.
Choose the Right Path for You: Therapy vs. Coaching
1️⃣ ADHD Therapy (Insurance-Covered)
- Traditional therapy sessions covered by insurance (UHC, Aetna, Optum EAP).
- Solution-Focused Therapy that targets executive dysfunction, emotional regulation, and self-perception.
- Insurance limits interactions to scheduled sessions only.
2️⃣ ADHD Therapy + Coaching (Self-Pay Add-On)
- Get additional coaching support outside of sessions for accountability and executive function training.
- Includes goal setting, daily check-ins, and structured strategies to build habits.
- Flexible & personalized—beyond what insurance allows.
Whether you choose therapy alone or therapy + coaching, you’ll receive structured, action-oriented support to make real changes.

ADHD is Not a Disorder of Knowing—It’s a Disorder of Doing. Let’s Change That.
If you’re ready to stop the cycle of frustration, shame, and inconsistency, I’m here to help.
📅 Book a Solution-Focused ADHD Session Today
🔹 Virtual coaching sessions available nationwide
🔹 Insurance sessions available in PA, FL, VA, AZ, ID.
🔹 Insurance accepted (UHC, Aetna, Optum EAP)


- Master’s of Arts, Creative Arts Therapy
- Master’s of Education, Special Education
- Currently working on PhD
- Licensed Professional Counselor in PA, NV, VA and AZ
- Licensed Mental Health Therapist in FL
- Licensed Creative Arts Therapist in NY
- Internationally registered advanced addiction Therapist














- ADHD Certified Professional (ADHD-CCSP)
- Certified Advanced Addiction Counselor (CAADC)
- Certified Integrative Mental Health Professional (CIMHP)
- Narcissistic Relationships, Emotional Abuse & Gaslighting: Treating and Empowering Survivors of Relational Trauma
- Project Management Professional (PMP)
Sarah Dalli2025-04-13Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Victoria is the most incredible, compassionate, kind, and thorough therapist I’ve ever had. I have been seeing her for almost 4 years and feel really lucky to have found her. I’m 30 years old and struggle with anxiety, a negative mindset, a harsh inner critic, and difficult family/relationship dynamics and Victoria has been instrumental in helping me work through all of those issues and more. She is not just a therapist who sits there silently listening the entire time. She always offers a unique perspective while still remaining personable and relatable. I also leave every session with “homework” so that I am actually taking what we’ve discussed and applying it to my real life through worksheets, journal prompts, videos, podcast recommendations, etc. Victoria always makes me feel accepted, assured, and welcomed during every session, and I highly recommend her to anyone who is looking for a therapist to finally help you through your troubles. Thank you Victoria for helping me change as a person for the better! Matthew S2025-04-12Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I’ve been seeing Victoria for almost a year now, and I’ve noticed significant improvements in myself, my mood, and my mental focus. I came across Victoria while searching for a cognitive behavioral therapy specialist. My goal was to adopt a more constructive approach to situations where my mind tends to overthink them, and to make a conscious effort to be more present in my daily life. Victoria’s approach has been constructive, caring, and helpful, listening to my concerns and providing effective strategies for me to not only deal with my immediate problems, but also a plan for any future situations that may arise. Along with being an effective psychotherapist, Victoria is also very flexible when the occasional emergency comes up, responsive to email, and reliable. Lastly, the remote sessions are very convenient, and no less effective than an in-person session. Sean Farrell2025-04-01Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. My son looks forward to his sessions with Victoria. She has helped him to find confidence in his ability to manage his emotions and be less impulsive. She checks in with me and is collaborative. We appreciate having her in my son's life. Lucia Bishop2025-03-31Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Victoria is a very understanding and encouraging therapist. Her enthusiasm really has the ability to shift my mind set. If I start the session feeling down and discouraged, she helps me see the positives and gives me the small steps I can take to focus on being self encouraging. Victoria is a wonderful therapist, she’s extremely helpful and always so positive and supportive. Adrienne Armstrong2025-03-28Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. My son has participated in the social skills Minecraft group for a few sessions and I recommend it to everyone! Real time application of skills and support is phenomenal. Mrs Victoria is so kind and engaging for updates. Such amazing support as we've navigated a difficult social time. He looks forward to it weekly! Jeanne Barrett Ortiz2025-03-28Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I have worked with Victoria for a year. She is an excellent listener, focuses on you and your goals, and is positive. She has offered useful tools and resources tailored to my needs. I look forward to our visits and I highly recommend her. Chris Palandro2025-03-28Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I've been seeing Victoria for about a year now and have had a really positive experience. She comes to every session with a positive, supportive, and solutions oriented approach. I always leave feeling like I've gained valuable insights that I'm ready to put into action. Highly recommend working with Victoria and Level up Wellness! Jessica Manlove2025-03-27Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Victoria has been a valuable member of my care team and has enabled me to safely explore my behavior, habits, and mental health. She's provided an objective perspective and has helped me identify actionable things I can do to improve my wellbeing. I highly recommend her!Verified by TrustindexTrustindex verified badge is the Universal Symbol of Trust. Only the greatest companies can get the verified badge who has a review score above 4.5, based on customer reviews over the past 12 months. Read more