ADHD Therapy for Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) – Take Control of Your Emotional Response
If you have ADHD and struggle with rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD), it can feel like every mistake, criticism, or social misstep is unbearable. Even when no actual rejection has happened, your brain interprets it as if it has—and the emotional pain is extreme. You may feel like you’ve let people down, embarrassed yourself, or failed beyond repair, and as a result, you believe others will withdraw their support, love, or respect.
These feelings can leave you stuck in self-doubt, social anxiety, and perfectionism, constantly replaying past interactions in your mind and struggling to move forward. But RSD doesn’t have to control your life. Therapy can help you rewrite unhelpful patterns, understand your ADHD brain, and build emotional resilience so you can feel more in control of your reactions and self-worth.
"Don’t Let Rejection Sensitivity Take Over Your Life & Relationships – Understand Your Brain, Take Control of Your Reactions!"
What is Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) & How is it Connected to ADHD?
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria isn’t an official diagnosis, but it is a common and painful experience for people with ADHD. RSD is deeply connected to social anxiety and emotional dysregulation, making everyday interactions feel like emotional minefields.
- Extreme Emotional Reactions: Even minor criticism or perceived rejection can feel devastating and unshakable.
- Constant Overthinking: You may replay social interactions for days, weeks, or even months, convinced you embarrassed yourself.
- Fear of Failure & Perfectionism: You avoid taking risks, speaking up, or setting boundaries because the thought of getting it wrong feels too painful.
- Difficulty Letting Go of Past Hurts: You may still carry the weight of unkind words or actions from years ago, unable to shake them off.
When ADHD is in the mix, you feel emotions more intensely, making it even harder to bounce back from perceived rejection or failure.
How Therapy with Victoria is Different
Many ADHDers don’t just want to talk about their struggles—they want real strategies that lead to actionable change. That’s exactly what therapy with me provides.
As a Licensed Therapist & Special Education Teacher, I specialize in helping neurodivergent individuals break free from emotional dysregulation and RSD cycles through:
- Data Tracking & Pattern Recognition: Understanding when, how, and why RSD flares up in your life.
- Rewriting Unhelpful Thought Patterns: Challenging the automatic beliefs that tell you “I’m a failure,” “I let people down,” or “Nobody likes me.”
- ADHD Brain Education: Learning why your brain reacts so strongly and how to retrain it for healthier emotional regulation.
- Homework & Real-Life Strategies: Actionable exercises between sessions to help you build resilience, set boundaries, and handle rejection differently.
You don’t have to keep reliving the same painful emotional cycles. Therapy can help you build confidence, self-compassion, and the tools to navigate rejection without spiraling.

Break Free from the Cycle of Rejection Sensitivity – Take Control of Your ADHD Brain Today!
You don’t have to live in fear of rejection, overthinking, or emotional overwhelm. Learn actionable strategies to manage RSD, build resilience, and feel more in control of your reactions.


- Master’s of Arts, Creative Arts Therapy
- Master’s of Education, Special Education
- Currently working on PhD
- Licensed Professional Counselor in PA, NV, VA and AZ
- Licensed Mental Health Therapist in FL
- Licensed Creative Arts Therapist in NY
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- ADHD Certified Professional (ADHD-CCSP)
- Certified Advanced Addiction Counselor (CAADC)
- Certified Integrative Mental Health Professional (CIMHP)
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- Project Management Professional (PMP)
Sarah Dalli2025-04-13Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Victoria is the most incredible, compassionate, kind, and thorough therapist I’ve ever had. I have been seeing her for almost 4 years and feel really lucky to have found her. I’m 30 years old and struggle with anxiety, a negative mindset, a harsh inner critic, and difficult family/relationship dynamics and Victoria has been instrumental in helping me work through all of those issues and more. She is not just a therapist who sits there silently listening the entire time. She always offers a unique perspective while still remaining personable and relatable. I also leave every session with “homework” so that I am actually taking what we’ve discussed and applying it to my real life through worksheets, journal prompts, videos, podcast recommendations, etc. Victoria always makes me feel accepted, assured, and welcomed during every session, and I highly recommend her to anyone who is looking for a therapist to finally help you through your troubles. Thank you Victoria for helping me change as a person for the better! Matthew S2025-04-12Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I’ve been seeing Victoria for almost a year now, and I’ve noticed significant improvements in myself, my mood, and my mental focus. I came across Victoria while searching for a cognitive behavioral therapy specialist. My goal was to adopt a more constructive approach to situations where my mind tends to overthink them, and to make a conscious effort to be more present in my daily life. Victoria’s approach has been constructive, caring, and helpful, listening to my concerns and providing effective strategies for me to not only deal with my immediate problems, but also a plan for any future situations that may arise. Along with being an effective psychotherapist, Victoria is also very flexible when the occasional emergency comes up, responsive to email, and reliable. Lastly, the remote sessions are very convenient, and no less effective than an in-person session. Sean Farrell2025-04-01Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. My son looks forward to his sessions with Victoria. She has helped him to find confidence in his ability to manage his emotions and be less impulsive. She checks in with me and is collaborative. We appreciate having her in my son's life. Lucia Bishop2025-03-31Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Victoria is a very understanding and encouraging therapist. Her enthusiasm really has the ability to shift my mind set. If I start the session feeling down and discouraged, she helps me see the positives and gives me the small steps I can take to focus on being self encouraging. Victoria is a wonderful therapist, she’s extremely helpful and always so positive and supportive. Adrienne Armstrong2025-03-28Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. My son has participated in the social skills Minecraft group for a few sessions and I recommend it to everyone! Real time application of skills and support is phenomenal. Mrs Victoria is so kind and engaging for updates. Such amazing support as we've navigated a difficult social time. He looks forward to it weekly! Jeanne Barrett Ortiz2025-03-28Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I have worked with Victoria for a year. She is an excellent listener, focuses on you and your goals, and is positive. She has offered useful tools and resources tailored to my needs. I look forward to our visits and I highly recommend her. Chris Palandro2025-03-28Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I've been seeing Victoria for about a year now and have had a really positive experience. She comes to every session with a positive, supportive, and solutions oriented approach. I always leave feeling like I've gained valuable insights that I'm ready to put into action. Highly recommend working with Victoria and Level up Wellness! Jessica Manlove2025-03-27Trustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Victoria has been a valuable member of my care team and has enabled me to safely explore my behavior, habits, and mental health. She's provided an objective perspective and has helped me identify actionable things I can do to improve my wellbeing. I highly recommend her!Verified by TrustindexTrustindex verified badge is the Universal Symbol of Trust. Only the greatest companies can get the verified badge who has a review score above 4.5, based on customer reviews over the past 12 months. Read more